Do you talk to yourself? I know that I do. It’s only when I start answering myself that I might need to worry. Yet, talking to oneself can be a way of clarifying thoughts, working through problems, and even releasing the “inner voice.” That little voice keeps us on track. The mind is complex, and though we know little about how it works, we do know it contains both positive and negative voices. Which one we choose to listen to determines the direction of our lives. These voices are shaped by parents, friends, teachers, and even social media. They can build us up or tear us down, leading us either closer to God or away from Him.
So let me ask: which voices are guiding you? Which voices are shaping your journey?
Our struggles can feel overwhelming, but God’s voice makes the impossible possible.
Jesus said in Mark 10:27, “With man it is impossible, but not with God. For all things are possible with God.”
When we reach exhaustion, God is still beside us, closer than our own heartbeat. Nothing—life, death, angels, demons, fear, or worry—can separate us from His love (Romans 8:38).
So again: what voices are you listening to? If you are struggling, let God’s voice drown out the pain and noise. Like Samuel, we must learn to say, “Speak, for your servant hears” (1 Samuel 3:10).
No one influences you more than yourself. You are in constant conversation with your soul, interpreting, analysing, and organizing everything around you. You ask questions about your past, your future, and your present. This internal dialogue shapes your desires, actions, and even your theology. Though silent, it is powerful. Scripture shows us examples of this kind of self-talk, especially in the Psalms. David often spoke to his own soul, telling it what to believe.
Take Psalm 62. David begins by declaring God’s steadfastness:
“Truly my soul finds rest in God; my salvation comes from Him. Truly He is my rock and my salvation; He is my fortress; I shall never be shaken” (vv. 1–2).
Yet in verses 3–4, he acknowledges the assaults against him. Then in verses 5–7, he speaks directly to his soul:
“Yes, my soul, find rest in God; my hope comes from Him. Truly He is my rock and my salvation; He is my fortress; I shall not be shaken. My salvation and my honour depend on God; He is my mighty rock, my refuge.”
Notice what David does—he tells his soul the truth. Though he already declared rest in God, he repeats it, commanding his soul to believe. Why? Because his enemies caused his soul to tremble. So, he gave himself a firm talking-to. We must do the same. When emotions drag us toward “Crazy Town,” we must remind ourselves of God’s truth.
Truths to Tell Yourself
Psalm 62 teaches us not only that we talk to ourselves but also what truths we must declare:
- Our hope comes only from God.
A restless soul searches for hope in relationships, achievements, status, or possessions. But these promises are empty. True hope comes from God alone. Romans 5:3–5 reminds us that suffering produces perseverance, character, and hope—a hope that never disappoints because it is rooted in God’s love poured out through the Holy Spirit. This is not a wishful “I hope I get a new car” kind of hope, but a sure hope secured by Christ. - God is our rock, refuge, and stronghold.
After a hard day, where do you turn? Food, drink, friends, or distractions? These may comfort temporarily, but they are not refuge. David counsels his soul: “God alone is my rock and my salvation, my stronghold.” We must run to God, pouring out our hearts, confessing anger, hurts, and anxieties. He alone is the Rock of Ages, the firm foundation in every storm. - I will not be shaken.
David boldly declares, “I will not be shaken.” Though imperfect, he knew his soul was listening to truth. Enemies could bruise or break him physically, but they could not destroy his faith. His security was in God. This is not unique to David—many faithful witnesses have stood firm despite persecution. Likewise, our circumstances need not shake us. With confidence, we cling to our Rock, Refuge, and Stronghold.
Talking to Yourself in Faith
So, what are you telling yourself? Are your words strengthening faith, giving hope, and encouraging perseverance? Or are they feeding fear, discouragement, and doubt? Do you remind yourself that God is near, or do you imagine He is distant? The voices we listen to shape our lives. That is why we must counsel our souls with truth, rebuking them when they wander, and reminding them of God’s promises.
David’s example shows us the importance of speaking truth to ourselves. When emotions overwhelm, when enemies surround, when hope seems lost—we must talk to ourselves, telling our souls to rest in God alone. In doing so, we silence the lies and strengthen our faith.
So, in your circumstances, what are you saying to yourself? More importantly, what are you saying to God?
To Be Continued….
Blessings Eric